My Mom Has Breast Cancer And?

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i feel Ɩіkе im חοt supportive аt аƖƖ. I Ɩονе mу mom more tһаח anyone аחԁ ѕһе ԁοеѕ EVERYTHING fοr mе.. Last month ѕһе wаѕ diagnosed wіtһ Breast cancer.. Sһе һаԁ һеr breast removed аחԁ now tһеу аrе saying tһаt ѕһе needs tο һаνе more lymphnods removed аחԁ tһе high possiblity οf chemo therapy..Shes scared аחԁ ѕο іѕ mу family..Bυt i feel Ɩіkе im keep pushing іt aside аחԁ caring аbουt wһаt i ɡοt tο ԁο. I аm חοt a self centered person аt аƖƖ bυt еνеr ѕіחсе tһіѕ һаѕ happened i feel Ɩіkе i want tο care more tһаח i ԁο..i hear һеr сrуіחɡ аחԁ іtѕ hard fοr mе tο comfort һеr..im never Ɩіkе tһіѕ..i һаνе חο іԁеа wһаt іѕ wrοחɡ wіtһ mе..

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4 Comments on “My Mom Has Breast Cancer And?”

  • Nicole L
    27 May, 2010, 18:43

    You need to be comfortable about the support you’re giving your mom. Try little things like being extra helpful around the house, or maybe take her out to eat, just something to take the strain off her during this difficult period. It shows that you’re thinking of her needs, and it won’t prompt a conversation about how you feel. It’s really hard when you see a different side of your parents, especially when you’re watching them struggle. Don’t worry it’s totally normal to feel the way you’re feeling, and eventually you will come back to your good old self.

  • margarita d
    27 May, 2010, 19:10

    I can imagine how hard this is on you. So imagine how it is on your mom. I mean i don’t know you and i feel so proud that you are supporting your mom like that. You might not think so but little things like giving her a hug a kiss or just telling her you love her will boost her spirit and her enthusiasm. Please keep supporting her and loving her, b/c you know this must be a very hard time on her. Don’t feel bad, because if you feel bad she will also. Just love her and give her your support and everything should be just fine….Hope your mom feels much better….god bless!!

  • graygurl26
    27 May, 2010, 19:46

    Supporting your mother emotionally is the best thng you can do. When my aunt was diagnosed, I felt the same way. You can support her. I bought my aunt a breast cancer survivor shirt before she beat it and it gave her courage to get through. Just staying by her side is important. Try to keep a positive attitude whenever possible. Most importantly, you and your family need to have faith. My aunt beat it and so can your mom. Stay strong, stay supportive, and pray. Jesus works miracles. Remember that a strong family can get through any obstacle :) Good luck and I wish you and your family well

  • RealAge.com
    27 May, 2010, 19:54

    First of all, what you are feeling is quite normal. It is your “denial” phase, you may also go through an anger phase. So what can you do?

    Sit down with your mom and tell her how you have been feeling and that you are scared you may lose her. It’s okay to talk about your fears and ask her about her fears. It is much healthier, for the both of you to get it out in the open .

    You may want to take a look at the cancer site blog links below:

    Hang in there and give yourself and your mom a big hug..

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